I am treading into deep water, and I don't really want to drown.
Please know from the get-go that I am not talking about BEAUTY, but rather about HEALTH.
Please hear my heart and believe me when I say, "The number on a scale is just a number."
Know another number people tend to get fixated on? Your jean/dress size. I don't really care about that either. So keep that in mind too!
Know what I DO care about, deeply? HEALTH.
Know what really gets me going? HEALTH.
Know what makes me tick? Know what I'm super passionate about? HEALTH.
My health. I want to be around as long as possible and do as much as I can with the time I am given here on earth. I want to go and do and make some wonderful memories with those I love. And I need to be healthy to do that.
My husband's health. I want to go and do those things with my husband. I want him to be here with me, making those wonderful memories with me (they won't be quite as wonderful without him by my side). And for that to happen HE needs to be healthy too.
My kiddos' health. I want my girls (I have 3 of them) to be healthy too. Many of the memories my husband and I will be making together will include them as well. I want us to be a HEALTHY FAMILY, living life to the fullest all together. I want to watch my girls grow up and have healthy families of their own. And so I must teach and model health to them now, even at the ages of 3 months, 2 years, and 4 years.
Okay, so I think that should help prevent any confusion with what I am about to say.
I just watched a segment on the Today Show with their special series "Love Your Selfie." They had women of all ages and shapes and sizes do a "Catwalk of Confidence." The women were beautiful in their dresses. They were courageous and fearless. I know I would be a little scared and self-conscious if I were on live TV for everyone to see. I would be thinking about what I looked like and would want to make sure I "looked good." So I applaud these women for being brave, braver than me.
I am sure I could sit down with each of the women and get to know them, hear their life stories. I am positive they each have special gifts and abilities and talents. I am certain they use those traits and interests and passions to make a difference in the lives of those around them. I am not questioning their character at all. Again, keep that in mind.
I do, however, have a problem with the fact that some of these women might have HEALTH issues. While I am all for loving yourself and feeling confident and good about who you are, I cannot gloss over the reality that being "plus size" tends to bring with it HEALTH concerns like high blood pressure, high cholesterol, a greater risk of heart disease, and a plethora of other HEALTH issues. Before you pick up rocks to stone me, the same can be said of women who are too thin. Sadly, the modeling industry puts waaaaaaaaaaaay to much pressure on women to look a certain way, and unfortunately what magazines and TV and such consider beautiful is definitely not HEALTHY, not at all. Like I said at the very beginning, the number on the scale and the number on the tag in your jeans or dress is just that -- a number. I don't care about the number. I care about HEALTH.
So, my question is this -- where is the balance between loving yourself and the way you look (no matter your size) and making sure you are also taking care of yourself and doing all that you can to be HEALTHY?!
I am in a health business not to help people look sexy or get into a smaller jean size or anything along those lines. Oh no!!! I am in the health business to help people get and stay HEALTHY. When I wrap someone, I am not telling that person they need to look a certain way to be beautiful. I am not communicating to them that they need to change they way they look to feel good about themselves. What, then, am I saying? That you deserve to have a body that functions to its full potential, that by taking care of your body you are going to feel better and be able to go and do more.
And that right there is why I don't stop at the wrap. Yes, it's a great place to start. It's a great tool to help you feel good (inside and out). It's a nice treat -- kind of like a spa experience, but way cheaper. BUT, you know what? I love our supplements even more than I love the wrap. Why? Because our supplements help you develop a HEALTHY LIFESTYLE and MAINTAIN GOOD OVERALL HEALTH. Hence, I talk about the greens...all.the.time! I take the vitamins myself. I give my girls the greens and greens chew every.single.day. I have my husband take the supplements with me. I use the protein powder in a smoothie for lunch almost every day of the week. I'm not just "selling" the products. I am using them myself, every day. I am a product of the product. (I haven't even mentioned the cleanser and toner and defining gel that I use as well -- after all, your skin is your biggest organ and you need to take care of it too) As I said before, I am doing all that I can to teach and model GOOD HEALTH to my 3 young girls. We don't talk about the number on the scale or the number on their jeans tag. But you better believe we talk about HEALTH!
I thought I was done, but just now I hear about an upcoming story about a "plus-sized" princess. I cringe. I don't in any way want my girls to think it's okay to be "overweight," whatever that means. Why do we even have to use terms like "plus size?" Why can't we talk about HEALTH?!!! Again, I want girls (and boys) to feel good about themselves and the way they look. BUT, I don't want them getting the wrong idea about HEALTH. No, you don't have to wear a size 6 (as I learned today anything over that is concerned plus size, which is crazy!). No, you don't have to weigh a certain amount. Once more, the number on the scale is just a number, BUT doesn't it play a small role in the bigger issue of HEALTH?
Brings me right back to the question I posed before -- where is the balance between loving yourself and the way you look (no matter your size) and making sure you are also taking care of yourself and doing all that you can to be HEALTHY?!
I need YOUR help. Please help me understand. Please help me have a balanced view, a full perspective. Please help me learn. Please help me grow. Please help....
I look forward to hearing/reading your thoughts and comments, so thanks in advance....